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Strengthen Your

Child's Resilience.

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Social & Emotional Skill-Building Coaching For Kids in NYC

We help children ages 3-10 make friends, manage big feelings, and navigate social situations with confidence. 

Private, personalized, one-on-one sessions.

Serving families in-home in NYC or virtually.

The Building Blocks Of
Social Skills & Emotion Regulation

Our evidence-based approach helps children develop essential skills for emotion regulation, coping with stress, and building healthy relationships. Through play-based activities tailored to each child's needs, we teach kids the social and emotional competencies they need to thrive at home, at school, and with friends.

Self-Awareness Skills

Recognizing and understanding one's own emotions, triggers, strengths, and self-worth.

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Self-Management Skills

Managing emotions, controlling impulses, staying focused, and persisting through challenges.

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Responsible Decision Making Skills

Thinking ahead, understanding consequences, taking responsibility, and making ethical choices

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Social Awareness & Relationship Skills

Understanding others' perspectives, building friendships, communicating needs, and navigating social situations.

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What Families Are Saying

"BIGFeels SEL Coaching helped our daughter better understand and practice kindness, especially toward her little sister...

As a busy family, we really appreciate that they come to us at home."

Parent of four-year-old with a younger sibling, 

Hudson Yards, NY

Meet Jesse Wilkinson: Founder & Coach

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I founded BIGFeels NYC to help children develop the social and emotional skills they need to thrive. With an M.A. in Psychology and over 15 years of experience in child and family mental health as an educator, researcher, and clinician, I've seen firsthand how the right support can transform a child's confidence, relationships, and ability to navigate challenges.

 

My approach is rooted in meeting each child where they are and building on their unique strengths. Whether your child is working through big emotions, developing friendships, or building self-control, I create a safe, playful environment where they can practice real-world skills at their own pace.

 

I work with families across NYC—in-person and virtually—and I'd love to learn more about how I can support your child's growth.

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SEL Coaching is for Every Child

Kids practice piano, sports, and reading. It’s time they practice social and emotional skills, too. They’re not behind—they’re learning skills that grow with experience. Social and emotional skills—and the resilience they build—develop over time through guidance, practice, and support.

While we address challenges that may be familiar to those with Autism, ADHD, Anxiety, and other neuro-developmental differences, we focus on building the skills that are most meaningful to each individual child—regardless of their starting point. ​

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